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  • Black HIV / AIDS Awareness Day 2012

    Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day is Tuesday, February 7th. I reached out to the Fresno County Department of Public Health with questions regarding the annual event, as well as the current state of HIV/AIDS. The Fresno County Dept. of Public Health is located at 1221 Fulton Mall in downtown Fresno. Phone 559-600-3200. Links can be found at the end of this article.

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    From the Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day Website…

    National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day was founded by five national organizations funded by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in 1999 to provide capacity building assistance to Black communities and organizations. The initiative begin in 2000 with these five key organizations: Concerned Black Men, Inc. of Philadelphia; Health Watch Information and Promotion Services, Inc.; Jackson State University - Mississippi Urban Research Center; National Black Alcoholism and Addictions Council; and National Black Leadership Commission on AIDS. National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day has been and always will be a grass roots effort,that is shaped around the needs of those communities that work hard each and every year to make it a success. Each year, almost 20,000 Blacks in the United States test positive for HIV, that is an alarming amount if you multiply it times the last five years alone - that's 100,000 Blacks who are now living with HIV or may have died from AIDS related complications. It's time for us to do something different that inspires young and old, gay and straight, religious and non-religious, etc. to get on board with realizing the value and worth of Black life and acting accordingly.

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    Black HIV / AIDS Awareness day is Tuesday, February 7th. How long has this day, specific to the black community, been around?

    This year will mark the twelfth annual observance of National Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day.

    There are other HIV Awareness days specific to various communities. Why do we need such specific days of awareness?

    The issue of HIV / AIDS impacts every community and is important to all of us each and every day of the year. But the sheer volume of information on this critical topic can be overwhelming.

    An “Awareness Day” which is geared toward a particular population provides an opportunity to focus on questions and answers that are especially relevant to those persons.

    Are there roadblocks within certain communities in terms of reaching out? If so, which communities are most difficult to reach out to with education and prevention, and why?

    Challenges exist in the attempt to reach various populations in our community. The Fresno

    County Department of Public Health (The Department) engages with a variety of partners, including but not limited to: media (television, radio, print) community-based and faith-based organizations, neighborhood groups, public and private health care facilities, and businesses to provide accurate and current information for consumers. The Department maintains an internet website at www.fcdph.org and social media venues are in development.

    Collaboration with entities such as GayCentralValley is additionally valuable because of its existing and vibrant social media network (Facebook, Twitter). Among consumers in the community, “face-to-face” and “word-of-mouth” information obtained from reliable sources such as FC DPH and Gay Central Valley is also helpful.

    One of the most difficult populations to reach, and one of the populations at highest risk, is that of Men Who Have Sex With Men, termed MSM. The Centers for Disease Control and

    Prevention (CDC) has identified young, Black MSM as the population most severely affected by HIV. The Department and Gay Central Valley welcome suggestions on ways to engage with this group to provide information.

    Click on READ MORE below for the rest of this article...

  • VIDEO: Aguilera Lets It All "Hang Out" at Etta James' Funeral

    Is it me?

    As anyone who knows me will tell you, I’m the farthest thing from a prude you might find. Still, I have a huge problem with this video of Christina Aguilera performing “At Last” at Etta James’ funeral. Now, I think Christina is one of the most brilliant voices we have today, and I think the recent criticism of her weight is amazingly hypocritical in this obese society.  But her breasts in this “funeral outfit”?

    Really? Is she serious? This can’t be oversight. As a Hollywood superstar, she’s not only aware of her physical presence, but she has people around her to tell her how she looks. Is this due to a bunch of “yes men”? This is an outfit she wears to a funeral? When she KNOWS she’ll be performing and photographed?

    You tell me.

  • Why I'm Like the Gay Sherlock

    My friends had finally brainwashed me into watching the contemporary Sherlock Holmes broadcasted on the BBC. Little did they know that it wasn’t them who brainwashed me. The actor who was playing Sherlock, who I later came to understand as Benedict Cumberbatch, swept me off my feet carrying me into the wind. My friend uttering, “His voice is like harps and leopards intertwined.” Perhaps something equally quimsical.

     

    I was quite humored. Because of Sherlock’s estranged interests and paranormal intuition guided by his perplexing abilities with observation, he remained disinterested in dating. Of course, everyone hoping that Sherlock would someday seek love, assumes that his lack of a female counterpart automatically classifies him as gay. When Dr. John Watson, played by Martin Freeman, comes to Sherlock’s side, everyone treats him as a type of gay partner. The gay jokes persist throughout the entire series.

    I guess, in this sense, the show is modestly progressive in that there is an underlying gay theme used as an occasional comic relief before the conflict again arises in climax. Though, I would never suggest them as a gay couple, I surely wouldn’t mind hanging with Benedict Cumberbatch in real life sometime.

     

    And it wouldn’t kill anyone to cast a gay character for another purpose other than comic relief. Put it simply, not all gays are hilarious.

  • Ex-Gay Speaks In Fresno

    Kathryn Herr with KGPE Local CBS 47 covered a recent visit by ex-gay man who claims that, with God, gays can change their sexuality. Gay Central Valley stepped in to offer an opposing viewpoint...

    Check out the VIDEO here...

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    Is your sexuality something you can choose?

    A speaker in the valley says he used to live a gay lifestyle. But with the help of the church, he is now happily married to a woman.

    It renews the debate of nature versus nurture. Is homosexuality a choice or are people born that way?

    Jim Domen shared his journey from gay to straight with a group in North Fresno.

    “I call myself an ex-gay man,” Domen said.

    Domen says he is a changed man. He lived a gay lifestyle for five years, until he hit a turning point. “Literally overnight everything was taken from me. My partner switched bank accounts kicked me out of the house, one thing after the other,” Domen said.

    Raised a Christian, he turned to the church. And says that turned his life around, from gay to straight and he is now happily married to his wife, Amanda.

    “I'm not here to preach this message and tell people they have to change that's not my job. I just want to share truth so people have the opportunity to change. You can choose God or not God it's your choice,” Domen said.

    His visit was sponsored by the Central Valley Strategic Forum. The group formed to support the ban on gay marriage.

    “It's a message that's so needed for today there's confusion out there with gender identity and so forth,” said Fred Vanderhoof, director of the forum.

    Members of Fresno’s gay community contend the message can even be dangerous. They point to the suicides of gay teenagers, including that of EricJames Borges in Visalia earlier this month.

    “If we send these messages out, it kind of aids and abets this feeling that there's something wrong with them and we don't want more kids to commit suicide,” said Chris Jarvis, Vice President with Gay Central Valley.

    “Love yourself, love your family, for whoever you and whatever you are because you can't change what you are. You can change how you behave, but you can't change what you are,” said James Hensley, Chris’s partner.

    For more information on Jim Domen you can visit his website at: http://jimdomen.net/_home/Home.html

    For more information gay rights issues in the valley visit: www.gaycentralvalley.org

  • Paula Poundstone at the Tower Theater TONIGHT

    Paula Poundstone is appearing at the Tower Theater tonight, Friday, January 27th at 8PM. Tickets are still available for this amazingly funny comedienne.

    Appearing on stage with a stool, a microphone, and a can of Diet Pepsi, PAULA POUNDSTONE is famous for her razor-sharp wit and spontaneity. The Boston Globe said, “Poundstone improvises with a crowd like a Jazz musician…swinging in unexpected directions without a plan, without a net.” Paula is so quick and unassuming that audience members at her live shows often leave complaining that their cheeks hurt from laughter and debating whether the random people she talked to were “plants.”

    Paula is supporting libraries on a local level by partnering with promoters and the local Friends organization in cities where she performs. The local Friends group receives tickets for use in fundraising or promotion as well as a portion of the book and CD sales after the performance where she makes herself available for signings. Says Poundstone: “It’s funny that we think of libraries as quiet demure places where we are shushed by dusty, bun-balancing, bespectacled women. The truth is libraries are raucous clubhouses for free speech, controversy and community. Librarians have stood up to the Patriot Act, sat down with noisy toddlers and reached out to illiterate adults. Libraries can never be shushed. If you haven’t been to your library lately, your overdue.”

    I did a recent interview with Paula for Gay Fresno that can be found here…

    EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW - Paula Poundstone.

     

  • Name/Gender Change Workshop This Saturday

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    Come gets all the ins and outs of how to legally change your name and / or gender.

    Step by step instructions… all the necessary forms… advice and testimonials!

    This FREE event is open to the public and is provided by Gay Central Valley in conjunction with Trans-E-Motion.

    Saturday, January 28th at the Fresno LGBT Community Center from 1PM-2:30PM

    The Community Center is located at

    1055 N Van Ness Avenue Suite A, Fresno, CA 93728…559-325-4429

    FACEBOOK EVENT PAGE

  • FAIR Education Act Repeal Efforts Move Forward

    Courtesy The Bay Area Reporter

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    The secretary of state’s office today (Thursday, January 26) cleared a proposal to repeal Senate Bill 48 for circulation.

    SB 48, also known as the Fair, Accurate, Inclusive, and Respectful Education Act, requires that LGBTs’ historical contributions be taught to California’s school students.

    The proposal, submitted by Lou Sheldon of the anti-gay Traditional Values Coalition, repeals SB 48′s requirement that instructional materials recognize those contributions.

    Sheldon also wants to undo the law’s provision that prohibits instructional materials that reflect adversely on people based on their sexual orientation and other characteristics.

    Backers of Sheldon’s initiative have until June 25 to collect the 504,760 valid signatures needed to get the proposal on the state ballot.

    Sheldon couldn’t immediately be reached for comment today.

    Karen England, executive director of the Capitol Resource Institute and its affiliated Capitol Resource Family Impact, is backing another SB 48 repeal initiative, which is expected to be cleared for circulation by mid-February.

    Richard Rios, another anti-gay activist, had also proposed undoing SB 48, but he said this week he’s dropping his efforts.

  • Fresno Beehive - NOH8 Event

    Kathy Mahan of The Fresno Beehive covers our upcoming NOH8 Event…

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    The NOH8 campaign is coming to Fresno in July. This will be your chance to take part in the NOH8 photo campaign that supports equality and builds awareness and unity against hate.

    If you're not familiar with the campaign, this is the background:

    The NOH8 Campaign is a photographic silent protest created by celebrity photographer Adam Bouska and partner Jeff Parshley in direct response to the passage of Proposition 8. Photos feature subjects with duct tape over their mouths, symbolizing their voices being silenced by Prop 8 and similar legislation around the world, with "NOH8" painted on one cheek in protest.

    READ MORE HERE - SOURCE - FRESNO BEEHIVE

     
  • The Collegian - Gay Suicide Ignites Campus Awareness

    The story of the recent suicide of Eric James Borges, as well as the topic in general, was covered today by Dalton Runberg of the Collegian at Fresno State.

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    When College of the Sequioias student Eric James Borges took his life Jan. 11, a month after making an “It Gets Better” video for The Trevor Project, it sent shockwaves through the surrounding community as well as the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community in the Central Valley.

    After a childhood plagued by bullying, abuse and religious parents — who had performed exorcism on him before kicking him out of the home in October — Borges was hired by COS psychology professor Debra Hansen and became an advocate against suicide for the Trevor Project.

    The Collegian - Read the rest of this article here...

  • VIDEO: The Trevor Project

  • VIDEO: Elizabeth Warren - It Gets Better

  • VIDEO: National Gay Straight Alliance Day

  • VIDEO: State of the Union Address

  • TUESDAY: FREE Live Stream of RuPaul Premiere Party

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  • GLSEN: No Name Calling Week Jan 23 - 27

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    THE HISTORY OF THE NO NAME-CALLING WEEK PROJECT

    No Name-Calling Week was inspired by a young adult novel entitled "The Misfits" by popular author, James Howe. The book tells the story of four best friends trying to survive the seventh grade in the face of all too frequent taunts based on their weight, height, intelligence, and sexual orientation/gender expression. Motivated by the inequities they see around them, the "Gang of Five" (as they are known) creates a new political party during student council elections and run on a platform aimed at wiping out name-calling of all kinds. The No-Name Party in the end, wins the support of the school's principal for their cause and their idea for a "No Name-Calling Day" at school.

    Motivated by this simple, yet powerful, idea, the No Name-Calling Week Coalition created by GLSEN and Simon & Schuster Children's publishing, consisting of over 40 national partner organizations, organized an actual No Name-Calling Week in schools across the nation. The project seeks to focus national attention on the problem of name-calling in schools, and to provide students and educators with the tools and inspiration to launch an on-going dialogue about ways to eliminate name-calling in their communities.

    FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

    • What is No Name-Calling Week?

    No Name-Calling Week is an annual week of educational activities aimed at ending name-calling of all kinds and providing schools with the tools and inspiration to launch an on-going dialogue about ways to eliminate bullying in their communities.

    • Who should participate?

    Anyone who wants to work towards eliminating harmful name-calling, harassment and bullying in their school can be a part of No Name-Calling Week, whether you are a teacher, student, guidance counselor, coach, librarian or bus driver. The curricular materials on this web site and in the Resource Kit are primarily aimed at middle school students, specifically grades 5-8, but may be modified for older or younger students. Feel free to download materials off this web site, or order the Resource Kit and create your own No Name-Calling Week initiative in your community.

    • How do I order a kit, how much is it, and how long will it take to get it?

    You can order your kit by clicking here and filling out the order form. The resource kit is $129.95, and will arrive at your door within 3-7 business days from the time you place your order. Expedited shipping service is available upon request.

    • What are some things I can do to promote No Name-Calling Week in my school right now?

    Click here to plan your No Name-Calling Week.

  • Another Teen Suicide…

    Another teen, Phillip Parker, has committed suicide due to anti-gay bullying. This time it’s Tennessee, a state with some of the most aggressive anti-gay bills and laws in the country. They virtually don’t even want the word gay mentioned there.

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    Sadly, Parker's case follows a spate of LGBT-related controversy in the state of Tennessee. In addition to Rogers, the so-called "Don't Say Gay" bill, which would effectively prevent public elementary and middle schools from teaching or distributing material on human sexuality that deals with homosexuality in any way, gained traction once again, while the state's senate Republicans have also proposed a change to the state's anti-bullying law to exempt condemnations of homosexuality based on religion.

    As WSMV is reporting, parents and grandparents found 14-year-old Phillip Parker's body last Friday, along with a handwritten note in his trash can reading, "Please help me mom." Family members say they had previously reported concerns about their son's treatment to Gordonsville High School but to no avail.

    To any teens reading this who may be in a situation that seems hopeless please remember there are people that can help. The Fresno LGBT Community Center located at 1055 N Van Ness Avenue Suite A in Fresno, CA 93728 can help you find any help you may need. Our phone number is 559-325-4429. Below you’ll find numbers for suicide prevention where you can talk to someone 24 hours a day.

    Need help? Visit The Trevor Project's website or call them at 1-866-488-7386. In the U.S. you can also call 1-800-273-8255 for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline or visit stopbullying.gov.

    You can also visit Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network's (GLSEN) website for more resources.

    Watch A Video Of the News Story HERE

  • Washington State on the Edge Of Marriage Equality

    Washington State, which has had domestic partnerships since 2007 and an “everything  but marriage” law since 2009 is now on the precipice of becoming the 7th U.S. state (New York, New Hampshire, Connecticut, Massachusetts, Vermont and Iowa) to legalize same sex marriage. With the announcement of support by a Democratic Senator who would become the 25th vote, securing the issue in the legislature, it’s all starting to look like a “done deal”.

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    The announcement by Sen. Mary Margaret Haugen, D-Camano Island, that she would cast the 25th and deciding vote in favor of the issue came has hundreds of people filled the Capitol to advocate for and against gay marriage.

    "I know this announcement makes me the so-called 25th vote, the vote that ensures passage," Haugen said in a statement. She said she took her time making up her mind to "to reconcile my religious beliefs with my beliefs as an American, as a legislator, and as a wife and mother who cannot deny to others the joys and benefits I enjoy. This is the right vote and it is the vote I will cast when this measure comes to the floor."

    With a governor who has publically supported the passing of same sex marriage, the typical opponents are already rattling their cages…

    "You are saying as a committee and a Legislature that you know better than God," said Ken Hutcherson, pastor of Antioch Bible Church.

    "I want to re-emphasize that we fully expect that this issue is going to end up on the ballot," said Rep. Jamie Pedersen, D-Seattle and sponsor of the House bill, said at a news conference following Haugen's announcement. "People should not be complacent."

    READ MORE HERE

  • Farming: Not Just For White People

     

    My mom sent me this video in one of the many, many, many emails she sends me each week.  Mom is one of those sweet retired ladies who sees every “forward” (as I call them) as a potential source of new and great wisdom and actually reads them all.  She does.  Then she lovingly decides who would benefit from which and forwards them on.  I finally told her, “Please don’t be offended, but I honestly don’t have time to read them all and usually I just delete them.”  Mom then developed a code that tells me which ones have personal notes to me inside them so I don’t delete the ones where she is actually asking or telling me something.  (And my friends wonder where I get my analytical tendencies.) But sometimes the subject lines intrigue me and I admit to looking at a select few.  Today I got this one called "Farmers Tribute: So God Made A Farmer" from Farms.com:

    I have to say I have enjoyed some of Paul Harvey’s monologues or diatribes over the years.  I’m sad that he’s gone; while I did not always agree with him, I did respect him as a news-person.  And frankly he was a comforting voice and reminder of what my mom would call the good old days (which my grandma always told me were not really so good.)  The narrative of this video piece is a bit too religious for my personal taste, but I get the sentiment for farmers and I’m sure many people will love its references to God and his/her love for the farmers.  Now that I am closer to farmland and farming than I ever dreamed I would be, I see a lot more of what goes into it, and I would not even pretend to think I truly have more than an inkling.  What I have witnessed while driving around country roads or overheard at the local coffee shop or listened to Wanda’s farming and farm-worker friends talk about is still impressive:  work that never ends but simply shifts from one crop or harvest to the next, dealing with Mother Nature’s inconsistencies and turmoil, or simply hard and often back-breaking work.  The sometimes poetic description in the video is probably a good representation of what the farming life involves.  I respect it.  It is humbling; not only for the amount of work that most modern workers would not willingly sign up for, but also for what it means to the rest of who just wake up and know there is going to be fresh food at the supermarket or farm stand with very little thought about what it takes to get it there.  What must it feel like to be a farmer and knowingly work to feed people?  Rewarding?  Unappreciated?  Where would we be without them?

    What jumped out at me in watching it and maybe it did for you too, is…with one exception right in the beginning, all of these farmers are white.  What the hell?  This video certainly was not filmed around here.  The Central Valley has a lot more diversity in their farmers.  I’m sure there is still a preponderance of farm owners that are white, but there are plenty of farmers that are more diverse than this little “slice of Americana” would have you believe.  Also, if we step away from the idea of who actually owns the farm since in many cases even around here that could be a corporation, where are the actual farm workers in this video?  Can most farms be worked by just dad+mom+2 kids these days?  I don’t think so.  When I drive around here, the workers I see farming lettuce, almonds, cotton, corn, and more include a lot more brown faces than white ones.  Can you say Cesar Chavez?  Why don’t the brown people show up in the film?

    I admit I’m going off half-cockadoodle-dooed here.   This is not a piece I spent a week researching for you; I’m just calling it like I see it and videos or commercials like this that want us to pretend all the farmers are white hetero-normative family units is ridiculous.  I tried to figure out how old the video piece is.  According to Farms.com YouTube channel it looks like they made the video and posted at in June 2011.  The Paul Harvey voice-over may be years older (it's credited in several places as being from an essay he delivered in 1978 to the National FFA), but the video's photographic images are what bugged me.  Where are the Latino/Portuguese/Black people in this picture?  The queers?  Yes…there are LGBT farmers out there. How about women farmers (that are not standing next to their Central-Casting-looking husbands)?  One of the toughest people I know around Chowchilla is an amazing woman farmer.    I did look up a couple statistics and found a graph from a report by the USDA National Agricultural Statistics Service (2007) that showed tremendous growth in both women and Hispanic farmers. While White male farmers have been the traditional operator, growth by non-Whites and females have been outpacing for several years.

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    I guess before I drive my blog “tractor” over the edge here, I really just want to say that I’m tired of the misrepresentation.  It is easy to blame the media and the corporations and whomever else we like to blame for that kind of thing.  But it is up to us to question it.   I am one of those people who proudly wore a button around San Francisco for like 10 years that said “Question Authority.”  You’re probably not surprised by that; since then I’ve learned to expand that to “Question Everything.”  In these days of CGI usage in daily commercials and government cover-ups and hypocritical evangelist ministers with mistresses and/or tapping their feet for boy-sex in public restrooms, and magazines photo shopping cellulite off of everyone over 15 so we all think we are supposed to be something we’re not….yes.  Question Everything.  If something doesn't look or sound right to you, like a charming little video about farming that tries to sell you a load of bullshit and subliminally or brazenly shows you that perfect picture of farming is a white opposite-sex type of family where everyone’s hair blows in the breeze, don’t buy it.  Get mad.  Challenge things.  Do some research and find out the truth.  If you are reading this then you have the power at your fingertips.  Farming is not, nor has it ever been, just for white people.

    You can find Pamela's blog here...Queer Femme In The Country

  • Etta James 1938 - 2012

    Superstar Etta James has passed away at the age of 73.  James was hospitalized in January 2010 to treat an infection caused by MRSA. She was diagnosed with leukemia in early 2011. The illness became terminal and she died on January 20, 2012, just five days before her 74th birthday, at Riverside Community Hospital in Riverside, California.

  • Manila Luzon & Sahara Davenport @ The Express


    Saturday, January 28th
    THE FRESNO EXPRESS

    is proud to bring you
    Manila Luzon
    &
    Sahara Davenport

    GAG!

    Join us for this special night with 2 fan favorites from the hit shows
    RuPaul's Drag Race, Seasons 2 & 3 and Drag-U

    Doors Open @ 9pm

    Don't Forget to Watch RuPaul's Drag Race Season 4
    Premiering Monday, January 30, 2012 
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    The Fresno Express

    The Fresno Express
    708 N Blackstone Avenue
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  • NOH8 Campaign Coming To Fresno

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    Big News! Gay Central Valley has worked for months to bring the NOH8 Campaign and things have finally worked out so GCV and NOH8 can come together. Gay Central Valley will host the NOH8 Campaign in Fresno on Friday, July 13th for an open photo shoot. The event will take place at The Big Red Church, also known as the First Congregational Church, United Church of Christ (While the event is being held at the church, it is not a church or religious related event)

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    We’d like to send out a special thank you to Justin Kamimoto and My LGBT Plus for collaborating with us and donating the cost of the hotel rooms.

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    Click on the following link for the FACEBOOK EVENT PAGE

    The Event has now been posted on the NOH8 Campaign Website…www.NOH8Campaign.com


    On FRIDAY, JULY 13TH the NOH8 Campaign will set up our mobile studio at THE FIRST CONGREGATIONAL CHURCH OF FRESNO (THE BIG RED CHURCH) in FRESNO, CALIFORNIA!

    The photo shoot on FRIDAY at THE BIG RED CHURCH is scheduled to begin at 5:00PM and end at 8:00PM. The NOH8 Campaign would like to thank GAY CENTRAL VALLEY and THE BIG RED CHURCH for helping to coordinate our first photo shoot in FRESNO!

    You do not need to make reservations; it's first come, first served - and we move quickly! When you arrive, you will receive a numbered model release to fill out, followed by receiving your NOH8 tattoo. We will call numbers throughout the day, and your corresponding release number will signal your time to line up to have your photo taken.

    The costs of doing a NOH8 portrait break down as follows:

    SOLO PORTRAITS .......... $40.00

    COUPLE & GROUP PORTRAITS ........... $25.00 per person

    The NOH8 Campaign accepts cash, most major credit cards, and checks made out to 'NOH8Campaign'. Fees cover services & processing for one retouched digital print only (made available through www.NOH8Campaign.com) and do not include physical prints.

    The lines moves quickly, so don't let the RSVP's intimidate you! We always do our best to make sure that everyone in line by 8:00PM has a chance to pose for their photo - and up to this point, we haven't ever had to turn anyone away! Anyone that would like to join the NOH8 Campaign is asked to wear a plain white shirt to match the look of the signature NOH8 photos.

    Celebrity Photographer & NOH8 Co-Founder Adam Bouska will be working around the clock to photograph 5-10 frames for each person that comes through. The final selection he chooses will be retouched and made available to you in about 8 weeks through the website:

    www.NOH8Campaign.com

    WHAT DO YOU NEED TO DO?


    ARRIVE BETWEEN 5:00PM AND 8:00PM @

    FIRST CONGREGATIONAL CHURCH OF FRESNO

    UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST

    (THE BIG RED CHURCH)

    2131 N VAN NESS BLVD.

    FRESNO, CA 93704

    * COME CAMERA READY *

    * WEAR WHITE *

    * POSE & MAKE A STATEMENT! *

    Once you arrive, the NOH8 Campaign will apply the NOH8 temporary tattoo to your face, and we will also supply you with the silver duct tape for the photo.

  • Student Study Needs Your Help

    I Need Your Help!

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    If you are between the ages of 18-27 and would like to help a college student achieve her Master’s and would like to have your story heard then please participate!

    My name is Danielle Gonzalez and I am a Master’s student at Fresno State in the social work department. I am basing my thesis/project on people who identify as LGBTQ, and their experiences in high school. I would like to discuss your opinions and feelings of your high school experience and recommendations.

    This would be a face to face interview and take no longer than an hour in a quiet, secluded room. Your identity will remain confidential and will not be disclosed to anyone related to the center or CSU Fresno, and will be helping a master’s student complete her thesis/project.

    For completing the interview you will receive a $5 gift card to Starbucks.

    Please call me at (559) 287-2177 if you are interested and we can set up a time to conduct the interview.

    Thank you!!

  • EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW – Jennifer Crow – Arne Nixon Center

    Jennifer Crow has taken over as Librarian at the Arne Nixon Center in the Henry Madden Library at Fresno State, after Angelica Carpenter retired. I visited her to speak about the Student Empowerment Project. The Project, in its infant stages, hopes to get LGBT books, along with speakers and video presentations into all local high schools.

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    Chris Jarvis: Can you give me an overview of what the Student Empowerment Project is all about?

    Jennifer Crow: Let’s start from the beginning. We acquired about 500 LGBT themed books , which are now here in the library. Anyone can use them, but because we’re a special collection, they don’t get checked out. So they’re not very accessible to a lot of people who could best use them, primarily high school students.

    CJ: So what prompted the idea of the Student Empowerment Project was to get LGBT books out of the closet, so to speak, and into the hands of students?

    JC: Right. These will be here, they’re not censored, they’ll always be here. They’re an archive. But we would like to reach out and share these books with people in the 16 metropolitan high schools. Fresno Unified, Clovis Unified and Central Unified. What we’d like to do is to place the 20 best books that we choose in the schools.

    CJ: And how will you choose the books?

    JC: Experts in the field will help us choose them. People like Michael Cart and KT Horning, who were two of the original donors. So we, along with the experts will choose the books to place in the schools.

    CJ: Will those books be coming from your collection?

    JC: They won’t actually be coming from our collection. We plan to raise the money to purchase the books we want to place in the school libraries. We’re also going to be working with the schools to make sure we’re not just leaving books there. We want to involve their GSA’s if they have a GSA, and certainly librarians and counselors. Our plan is to let the GSA’s choose another 20 books, all titles that we own as well.

    CJ: So you’ll provide a list and students can pick 20 from there as well.

    JC: Or if they have a book they love and they’ve read and they say they’d like to have that in the library, we can do that as well. It’s really important to have the students have some say about what goes into their library.

    Click on Read More below for the rest of this interview...

  • VIDEO: Conditions Where Your iPhone Is Made

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    The Daily Show talks about the deplorable conditions in China, where much of our technology is produced…Watch the video here…

    http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/mon-january-16-2012/fear-factory

  • Ode to Chanclas

    The weather around here has been pretty nice this week.  I’ve made multiple comments on the Facebook pages of my friends in Reno saying how much I do NOT miss the snow.  Except for looking out the window at while I curl up with my wife someplace warm with a Hot Apple Pie cocktail in my hand.  While I admit she and I had some pretty outrageous late night drunken snow angel-making adventures, for the most part I like it much better here in the Central Valley farm country for winter.

    I inherited a lovely 40+ year old garden started by the woman who owned the home we rent.  I wish I could have met her and learned exactly how to take care of each and every plant she lovingly placed in my garden haven.  I guess I could call myself The Reluctant Gardener, but I’m really not all that reluctant about it, just uninformed.  I’ve never had the opportunity to grow a dozen rose bushes, lily’s and other bulbs or the other 897 plants (I might be exaggerating but perhaps not, it’s hard to count them all) I’ve become the caretaker of.  I’ve been told by the current owners not to worry about all those plants; that if I want to rip some out or if some happen to die, that it is okay.  Maybe for them, but of course I take it as a personal challenge to keep each of the original owner’s “babies” alive and well.  So far, I’m doing pretty good (pats self on back.)

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    One of the great things I’ve learned about on my gardening “path” is the beauty of a pair of chanclas.  First I must tell you that I only recently learned this term.  When I first saw a pair I thought they way too boyish for moi, and in fact, the people I knew that wore them were gay guy friends in LA.  When I would visit there, I admired how cute they looked with their socks and chanclas but didn’t really see myself wearing them.  And they always looked really convenient and comfortable; very LA.  I didn't know they had a name, I since I have a penchant for making up terminology, I called them “slippee-slidee shoes"; made sense to me.

     

  • “I Have A Dream”- Complete Speech

    Below is the full text of Martin Luther King's famous "I Have A Dream" speech...

     

    I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

    Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

    But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languishing in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. So we have come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

    In a sense we have come to our nation's capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

    CLICK ON READ MORE BELOW FOR THE REST OF THE SPEECH...

     

  • Martin Luther King Day - 10 Facts

  • What's Wrong With Your iPhone?

    Boycotts, boycotts, boycotts.  I’m not a boycott person. I’ve lived long enough and worked for enough corporations that I understand the level of inequity that permeates virtually all of them, to one degree or another. Still, in the last couple of years I’ve had to hear many in the LGBT Community recommend and stand by protests and boycotts of such corps as Walmart and Target. Talk to them about it? Pointless. Those who jump on boycotts often do it with a handful of facts at their disposal, with a willing ignorance of what may be wrong at the places they shop.

    Virtually everyone I know who urges and participates in boycotts all own Apple products, often many of them. They also replace them year after year, even though the reasons to do so are getting smaller and smaller so as to be almost non-existent. Still, you just have to replace your iPhone every year or two, don’t you?

    Try this…try to talk to someone who will boycott Walmart without taking a breath, about the practices in place that support their Apple addictions. There are lots of interesting facts…

    Courtesy Business Insider...

    Last week, NPR's "This American Life" did a special on Apple's manufacturing. The show featured (among others) the reporting of Mike Daisey, the man who does the one-man stage show "The Agony and the Ecstasy of Steve Jobs," and The NYT's Nicholas Kristof, whose wife is from China.

    You can read a transcript of the whole show here. Here are some details:

    Foxconn, one of the companies that builds iPhones and iPads (and products for many other electronics companies), has a factory in Shenzhen that employs 430,000 people.

    One Foxconn worker Mike Daisey interviewed, outside factory gates manned by guards with guns, was a 13-year old girl. She polished the glass of thousands of new iPhones a day.

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    The 13-year old said Foxconn doesn't really check ages. There are on-site inspections, from time to time, but Foxconn always knows when they're happening. And before the inspectors arrive, Foxconn just replaces the young-looking workers with older ones.

    In the first two hours outside the factory gates, Daisey meets workers who say they are 14, 13, and 12 years old (along with plenty of older ones). Daisey estimates that about 5% of the workers he talked to were underage.

    The workers stay in dormitories. In a 12-by-12 cement cube of a room, Daisey counts 15 beds, stacked like drawers up to the ceiling. Normal-sized Americans would not fit in them.

    Unions are illegal in China. Anyone found trying to unionize is sent to prison.

    Daisey interviews dozens of (former) workers who are secretly supporting a union. One group talked about using "hexane," an iPhone screen cleaner. Hexane evaporates faster than other screen cleaners, which allows the production line to go faster. Hexane is also a neuro-toxin. The hands of the workers who tell him about it shake uncontrollably.


    Some workers can no longer work because their hands have been destroyed by doing the same thing hundreds of thousands of times over many years (mega-carpal-tunnel). This could have been avoided if the workers had merely shifted jobs. Once the workers' hands no longer work, obviously, they're canned.

    One former worker had asked her company to pay her overtime, and when her company refused, she went to the labor board. The labor board put her on a black list that was circulated to every company in the area. The workers on the black list are branded "troublemakers" and companies won't hire them.

    One man got his hand crushed in a metal press at Foxconn. Foxconn did not give him medical attention. When the man's hand healed, it no longer worked. So they fired him. (Fortunately, the man was able to get a new job, at a wood-working plant. The hours are much better there, he says — only 70 hours a week).

    READ THE REST OF THE STORY HERE...

    In many factories in China, which is where most of our “stuff” comes from, large nets have had to be placed around high rise companies because of all the worker suicide jumps.

    So a great number of the things we love in this country are produced in a country with these horrendous conditions. Still, most of us prefer to condemn a couple of mainstream department stores instead of looking at the big picture. Of course, you can still start a boycott of Target right now by texting your friends on your iPhone…

  • VIDEO: ABC30 Covers Teen Suicide

    Our own Brooke Burk of GayVisalia.com discusses the recent suicide of Eric James Borges.

  • VIDEO: KSEE 24 Covers Eric James Borges Suicide

  • VIDEO: Suze Orman Finally Makes Sense

    I don't really like Suze Orman. I don't think she ever offers any practical advice for those without the means to just "hang onto your savings". She really has no idea what people without loads of money go through in trying to make ends meet. That being said, this is the first logical thing she's said. And watch how Barbra Walters twists it afterwards, back to "social issues" rather than listening to Orman who explained that the social injustice results in a financial injustice. Those of us (same sex couples) who are legally married under state law understand how screwed we are under federal law. And those same sex couples who can't even get married in their own states? They're screwed all the way around...

  • Services Planned for Visalia Teen

    Visalia: 19-year old gay teen, Eric James Borges, succumbed to suicide yesterday.

    Services Planned...Facebook Event Pages... 

    Remembering Eric James Borges Jan 18th

    As much of our community now knows, our student and friend, Eric James Borges, succumbed to suicide on Wednesday evening, January 11. The world has lost a beautiful, gentle, and nurturing soul from his passing, and the COS Theatre Department would like to provide an opportunity for his friends and admirers to gather together to discuss his life and his legacy. We will be showing some of his work, reading from some of his stories, and offering an outlet for folks to ask questions and receive guidance during this difficult time. If you would like to offer any assistance with this gathering, please contact Professor Chris Mangels at chrism@cos.edu.

    Eric James Borges Memorial Service Jan 21st

    Please join us for this day of remembrance. All are welcome. We are hoping to provide a time and space for love, acceptance and memories. Service to provide unconditional love and support for friends, family, and community members. For additional information, please contact me or Van.

    From The Trevor Project...

    If you or someone you know needs support, please don’t hesitate to call the Trevor Lifeline at 866-488-7386

  • EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW: Paula Poundstone

     

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    Courtesy Paula's Publicist...The Tower Theatre of the Performing Arts in Fresno, CA is proud to present comedian Paula Poundstone in concert Friday, January 27th.  It’s impossible to attend a Paula Poundstone performance without marveling at her ability to interact spontaneously with audience members in conversations bound to garner riotous laughter. Armed with nothing but a stool, a microphone and a can of Diet Pepsi, Paula’s ability to create humor on the spot has become the stuff of legend. Little wonder people leave Paula’s shows debating whether the random people she talked to were “plants” – which, of course they never are, and complaining that their cheeks hurt from laughter.

    SEE PAULA POUNDSTONE IN FRESNO ON FRIDAY JANUARY 27TH

    Showtime:  8:00PM Tickets: $32.50 - $35.50

    Visit:  www.towertheatrefresno.com or call:  559-485-9050

    The Tower Theatre of the Performing Arts is located at 815 East Olive Ave. Fresno, CA 93728

    Chris Jarvis: When I heard Paula Poundstone was coming to Fresno, I had one instinct...I want to talk to her. First, I want to help promote her show at the Tower Theater and second, I've been a fan for many, many years. She's always been one of my favorite comediennes. We arranged a phone interview and I gave her a call...You can find Paula Poundstone LINKS at the end of this article...

    CHRIS JARVIS: Paula, how do you feel about playing conservative versus liberal cities?

    PAULA POUNDSTONE: Doesn't matter at all. Because you know what, there is no such thing as a conservative or liberal city. Every area is peopled by some mixture. So I find that a lot of times when I'm in a place that people consider a "red state" I actually find that the audiences are fantastic. I think the groups that come out tend to just be the group with a more liberal persuasion.

    CJ: How much of your show is scripted and how much do you just play off the audience?

    PP: You know, on a good night, and I like to think there are some, I go to the audience and kind of ask where they're from, and read things through that, and then it has that pinball kind of effect.

    CJ: I see you've been Tweeting about the Presidential Campaign.

    PP: Oh it's hard not to. It's pretty funny. I don't know if every year has always been this funny, although I used to get a chuckle out of Lamar Alexander years ago. I've said it before and I'll say it again, watching the Republican field this time is like watching a front loading dryer. I don't think anybody could have predicted how many times this sort of shifting interest would happen.

    CJ: Right. It's like a game show where they pick somebody new every week.

    PP: Honestly! It really has been. Michelle Bachman was on the cover of Newsweek as if we all needed to know about Michelle Bachman because she was such a possibility.

    CJ: The crazy picture.

    PP: Yes, the crazy picture. I always sort of felt bad for the photographer because it's sort of hard not to get a crazy picture.

    Click on Read More below for the rest of this interview...

     

  • EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW: Paula Poundstone

    Courtesy Paula's Publicist...The Tower Theatre of the Performing Arts in Fresno, CA is proud to present comedian Paula Poundstone in concert Friday, January 27th.  It’s impossible to attend a Paula Poundstone performance without marveling at her ability to interact spontaneously with audience members in conversations bound to garner riotous laughter. Armed with nothing but a stool, a microphone and a can of Diet Pepsi, Paula’s ability to create humor on the spot has become the stuff of legend. Little wonder people leave Paula’s shows debating whether the random people she talked to were “plants” – which, of course they never are, and complaining that their cheeks hurt from laughter.

    SEE PAULA POUNDSTONE IN FRESNO ON FRIDAY JANUARY 27TH

    Showtime:  8:00PM Tickets: $32.50 - $35.50

    Visit:  www.towertheatrefresno.com or call:  559-485-9050

    The Tower Theatre of the Performing Arts is located at 815 East Olive Ave. Fresno, CA 93728

    Chris Jarvis: When I heard Paula Poundstone was coming to Fresno, I had one instinct...I want to talk to her. First, I want to help promote her show at the Tower Theater and second, I've been a fan for many, many years. She's always been one of my favorite comediennes. We arranged a phone interview and I gave her a call...You can find Paula Poundstone LINKS at the end of this article...

    CHRIS JARVIS: Paula, how do you feel about playing conservative versus liberal cities?

    PAULA POUNDSTONE: Doesn't matter at all. Because you know what, there is no such thing as a conservative or liberal city. Every area is peopled by some mixture. So I find that a lot of times when I'm in a place that people consider a "red state" I actually find that the audiences are fantastic. I think the groups that come out tend to just be the group with a more liberal persuasion.

    CJ: How much of your show is scripted and how much do you just play off the audience?

    PP: You know, on a good night, and I like to think there are some, I go to the audience and kind of ask where they're from, and read things through that, and then it has that pinball kind of effect.

    CJ: I see you've been Tweeting about the Presidential Campaign.

    PP: Oh it's hard not to. It's pretty funny. I don't know if every year has always been this funny, although I used to get a chuckle out of Lamar Alexander years ago. I've said it before and I'll say it again, watching the Republican field this time is like watching a front loading dryer. I don't think anybody could have predicted how many times this sort of shifting interest would happen.

    CJ: Right. It's like a game show where they pick somebody new every week.

    PP: Honestly! It really has been. Michelle Bachman was on the cover of Newsweek as if we all needed to know about Michelle Bachman because she was such a possibility.

    CJ: The crazy picture.

    PP: Yes, the crazy picture. I always sort of felt bad for the photographer because it's sort of hard not to get a crazy picture.

    Click on READ MORE below for the rest of this interview...

  • VIDEO: Al Franken Seeks Your Help With School Bullying



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    Join us and help make our schools a safer place for LGBT students. Take two minutes of your day to call your Senators and urge them to cosponsor the Student Non-Discrimination Act:

    • Call the Senate switchboard at 202-224-3121

    • Ask for your Senators and make your voice heard

    • Ask your friends to call too

    • Keep calling every week until this important bill passes

  • Stonewall Democrats Meet Tonight With Guest Speaker

    Reminder: Fresno Stonewall Democrats will meet THIS EVENING, Wednesday, January 11, 2012 at Carrow's Restaurant, 4280 N. Blackstone at Ashlan in Fresno.

    Dinner/social hour: 6:00 P.M., meeting: 7:00 P.M.

    This is membership renewal time. Dues are $20 per year. Please bring $20 cash or a check or you may renew online with a credit card via ActBlue or PayPal at our new website: http://fresnostonewalldemocrats.org/wordpress/

    You may also mail a check to:

    Fresno Stonewall Democrats

    5965 E. Shields Ave. #170

    Fresno, CA 93727-8061

    Those who recently joined or renewed late in 2011 will not have to renew at this time. If you would like to know your renewal status please contact the Treasurer, Jay Hubbell at 292-4905  jayhubbell@comcast.net

    We will be filling the vacancy for Fresno Stonewall Democrats Secretary to serve out the unexpired one year of a two-year term of office.

    Our guest speaker will be Susan Good who has declared her candidacy for Fresno City Council District 4. This is the seat currently held by Council member Larry Westerlund who is termed out.

  • VIDEO: Original Clip of Transgender Girl Scout

    Here is the original video of the transgender child who was at first rejected by the Girl Scouts, but later granted admission...

  • VIDEO: Transgender Admission Sparks Controversy

    The attached video shows a 14 year old California girl issuing a call for a boycott of Girl Scout cookies because a Colorado chapter of the Girl Scouts proudly admitted to the acceptance of transgendered girls.

    "I am asking you to take action with me and boycott Girl Scout Cookies." The video eventually concludes with a tagline for the Honest Girl Scouts site, which describes itself as a group "concerned with the alarming choices GSUSA has been making," and "advocating for a change back to simply building girls of good character."

    It's a difficult video to watch because of the calculated delivery of this girl, who often seems like nothing more than a robot reciting lines.

    Let this be said, the Girl Scouts as an organization is open minded and thoughtful, and much more liberal than the average American might be aware of. While this girl is following the principals she learned from the Girl Scouts in expressing her opinion, she is not in line with the general policies of the Girl Scouts as an organization.

    Time to step up and buy MORE Cookies to support the Girl Scouts, who have in place many liberal policies the LGBT Community would be proud of, including allowing transgender kids to join.

  • EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW: Victoria Benavides - GSA

    Victoria Benavides is the Central Valley Program Coordinator for GSA Network . I sat down with her at the Fresno LGBT Community Center to talk about the state of GSA's in the Central Valley, the upcoming ENS Conference and how students facing harassment or discrimination at their schools can use available tools to report and control safety issues on their campuses.

    A Gay-Straight Alliance (GSA) is a student-run club, typically in a high school or middle school, which provides a safe place for students to meet, support each other, talk about issues related to sexual orientation and gender identity and expression, and work to end homophobia and transphobia.

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    CHRIS JARVIS: How many GSA's are there in the Central Valley?

    VICTORIA BENAVIDES: We have over 60 in the Central Valley, in the region from Stockton down to, right before Bakersfield. I would like to encourage our Central Valley GSA's to not only become more active, but to also register their groups at GSA Network, on a yearly basis. Some signed up initially but haven't checked back in and we don't know and can't send out the appropriate resources if we don't know if they exist anymore. Some of our GSA's have never re-registered since they started some 10 years ago. So we ask that they update contact information in order to continue receiving resources.

    CJ: And for schools without GSA's that want to start one, how do they do that?

    VB: Yes, visit GSA Network - Start A GSA (www.gsanetwork.org) and there's a whole kit on how to start up a GSA. There's a ten step process to starting up a GSA.

    CJ: Expression Not Suppression is coming up on March 24th. Tell us about that event.

    VB: Expression Not Suppression is a conference that's happened here in the Valley for about 8 years. It's an opportunity for students who are LGBTQQI (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Questioning and Intersex) to come to a place not only with people similar to them but also strong allies to learn about creating safe communities and safe schools.

    CJ: How do the kids get there?

    VB: We're hoping to get all the information out by the end of January so that accommodations can be made for transportation. Schools do have the opportunity to make this a field trip, and some schools do car pooling. We also want to do the groundwork with some local organizations to create car pooling for the students. In all of those instances the students will either need permission slips for a field trip or a simple permission slip from their parents to attend a community event.

    ENS has evolved from a specifically GSA Networks to a partnership with organizations like Community Link. It was just too hard with the workload of GSA Central Valley Coordinators to get to the kind of attendance we want, which is around 200, without a major partnership. So Community Link became a strong partner around the time Robin McGeHee was a part of GSA. GSA is taking a little bit more of the forefront for the planning, while Community Link will be helping us with lot of things like donations for breakfast, etc.

    Click on READ MORE below for the rest of this story...

     

  • LA Porn Industry Faces Mandatory Condoms

    The porn industry in Los Angeles is getting a directive from the LA City Council...Condom Use Is No Longer an Option...It's a Requirement...

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    In the years after AIDS became such a devastating disease, porn films generally "manned up" and instituted condom use, but with the decline of AIDS related deaths and a manageable routine to treat the disease, condom use not only waned, but a whole new market of films which deliberately and blatantly threw out condom use, proliferated. "Bareback" films were back in vogue.

    Now, at least in LA, government is stepping in to change the system, in an effort to battle HIV & STD infections.

    The controversy erupted in August, 2010...

    After a performer in Miami had an initial positive test from a medical clinic for the virus that causes AIDS, a weeklong shutdown of porn production from coast to coast in early September ensued, affecting scores of major and minor productions. Luckily for the titans of this industry, it turned out to be a false positive.

    Despite the false positive, the campaign for mandatory condoms kicked into high gear.

    The measure does need a second approval, next week, before it can become law. If it does, there are already talks of the industry moving underground or out of state to avoid the restrictions.

    READ MORE HERE...

  • Archie Comics Gay Wedding

    This certainly isn't the Archie Comics I read as a kid...

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    In the issue, Kevin decides to follow in his father's footsteps and join the military -- but becomes injured while serving in Iraq. While recovering at the hospital's rehabilitation unit, Kevin meets an African-American doctor -- and the two eventually fall in love. The couple's happy wedding day is featured on cover of Life With Archie #16.

    SOURCE

  • VSPW To Undergo Gender Change?

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    Note to reader:  This particular post turned out to be much more than I imagined when I started, so be prepared for a bit longer read than usual.  Go get your coffee first.  I am not affiliated with either side of this issue, nor do I claim to be any kind of expert.  Just a citizen of a small Central Valley town.

    It has taken me all these months here in Chowchilla to get sort of “settled.”  For those who read this blog regularly, you’ve heard many of the challenges and differences my wife and I have faced in moving here.  It is only now starting to feel like we live here rather than just visiting.  It’s hard finding the right descriptor.  I wanted to say comfortable, but most of the time it’s really not comfortable here.  There are some very nice people to interact with in addition to our friends, but even though Angela grew up here, we are essentially outsiders and probably always will be.  Small towns are not always as welcoming as seen on cable TV movies.  In my opinion, it directly correlates to how insulated this community is and that they feel they have to protect their way of life.  Does just being a lesbian in your town mean I am trying to change your way of life?  Maybe it does to most of them…the circle feels pretty closed.

    I don’t give up or give in easily, so we prevail by being an ongoing presence here whether we are liked or not, welcomed or not.  My friends will tell you that neither Angela nor I are good at just sitting around or kicking back and letting things roll.  I have been an activist of one type or another since 1988 in San Francisco.  I personally believe that part of the reason we are put on earth is to make ourselves into the best we can be and to make differences large or small whenever and however we can.  So even though I’m far away from my circle of long-time friends and the years of political and activist contacts I made where I used to live, you can’t take the activist out of the girl.

  • VIDEO: Washington Governor Will Pursue Same Sex Marriage

  • Finally Justice for Male Victims of Rape

    Men can be, and are sexually assaulted and gay men are targets for anti-gay violence. This change in wordage will help these men find justice. Clearly this is another step in the direction of equal rights along with the momentum of support for gays to legally marry and the repeal of DADT.  Every step moves us closer to equality and for that there must be justice for all.

    Lorie Frye--

    DOJ Changes Rape Definition to Include Men Posted 1/6/2012 11:37:00 AM

    By Karen Ocamb
    News Editor

     

     

    The Department of Justice (DOJ) announced revisions to the Uniform Crime Report’s (UCR) definition of rape on Friday. The new definition enables the FBI to collect more comprehensive statistical reports from local law enforcement agencies, thus providing a better picture of the scope of rape nationwide. The new definition of rape is:

    “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim.”

    According to a DOJ press release:

    The revised definition includes any gender of victim or perpetrator, and includes instances in which the victim is incapable of giving consent because of temporary or permanent mental or physical incapacity, including due to the influence of drugs or alcohol or because of age. The ability of the victim to give consent must be determined in accordance with state statute. Physical resistance from the victim is not required to demonstrate lack of consent. The new definition does not change federal or state criminal codes or impact charging and prosecution on the local level.

    “Rape is a devastating crime and we can’t solve it unless we know the full extent of it,” Vice President Joe Biden, author of the landmark Violence Against Women Act, said in a press release. “This long-awaited change to the definition of rape is a victory for women and men across the country whose suffering has gone unaccounted for over 80 years.”

  • Occupy The Courts - Jan 20th

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    Courtesy Move To Amend

    Inspired by our friends at Occupy Wall Street, and Dr. Cornel West, Move To Amend is planning bold action to mark the second anniversary of the infamous Citizens United v. FEC decision!

    Occupy the Courts will be a one day occupation of Federal courthouses across the country, including the U.S. Supreme Court in Washington, D.C., on Friday January 20, 2012.

    Move to Amend volunteers across the USA will lead the charge on the judiciary which created — and continues to expand — corporate personhood rights.

    Americans across the country are on the march, and they are marching OUR way. They carry signs that say, “Corporations are NOT people! Money is NOT Speech!” And they are chanting those truths at the top of their lungs! The time has come to make these truths evident to the courts.

    ➤➤ Join us Friday, January 20, 2012 at a Federal Court building near you! Click here to sign up.

    Fresno is on the list...for more details and a contact for Fresno click here... http://movetoamend.org/occupythecourts

  • Your voice needed: The LGBTQ Reducing Disparities Project Survey

    Members of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer/questioning (LGBTQ) communities continue to face challenges getting services to fit their unique needs. This is why we invite you to participate in a groundbreaking study about the needs of LGBTQ people and their families.

    We need your voice!

    To take the survey, copy and paste this URL into your browser

    : http://tinyurl.com/LGBTReducingDisparities 

    This survey is for anyone whose sexual orientation, gender identity and/or gender expression may not fit the expectations of society, their friends or families.  It is also for parents/guardians of LGBTQ individuals.

    We know not everyone identifies as LGBTQ.  When we use this common acronym, we are also referring to the many diverse ways community members identify including, but not limited to:

    Del Ambiente * Downe * Gender Queer * Intersex * Pansexual

    Same Gender Loving * Stud * Transgenero * Two Spirit

    No matter what label you may use to identify yourself, or if you’ve ever wondered if you’re LGBTQ, this survey is for you.

    Please also forward the survey link to your friends and family in California.

    Take the survey and forward it now!

    Cut and paste the following into your browser:

    http://tinyurl.com/LGBTReducingDisparities

    The LGBTQ Reducing Disparities Project Survey will explore the discrimination, inequalities, and needs of Californians whose sexual orientation, gender identity and/or expression may not fit the expectations of society.

    If you would like more information about the project please contact

    Poshi Mikalson, Project Manager at:

    LGBTQmentalhealth@att.net or 916-520-4528

    This project is presented by the California LGBT Health and Human Services Network through a collaborative arrangement with Equality California Institute and Mental Health America Northern California funded by the Mental Health Services Act.

  • Seniors Are Not Saints

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    Pamela Brooks is a new contributor to Gay Fresno, adding her unique voice, insight and wit.

    "I'm a city girl by way of Phoenix, Reno, San Francisco, Reno, Portland, and Reno.  I have cowgirl and philharmonic in my blood but never thought I'd live in farm country.  My politics are libertarian to democratic; I believe in following your dreams and the power of mind over matter.  Let the games begin. 

    You can find Pamela's blog here...Queer Femme In The Country

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    An incident happened a couple weeks ago that should not have affected me the way it did.  I started to write about and got kind of stuck, so I let it sit a bit and decided to tackle it again.

    As a queer femme I have had remarkably few negative incidents because of my queerness, especially compared to stories from my butch female or gay male friends.  Like many other femmes, I “pass”, meaning that just to look at me there is nothing distinctly “gay” about me that puts up people’s sensors or gaydars or other filters that alert them to something they don’t like.  Or maybe I should just say something that shows them what is different from them.

    Because I don’t really “look” gay, I’ve had to fight my way out of the closet.  I’ve spent more time convincing people I am gay than most LGBT folks spend telling others they are not.  I’ve always joked about getting a rainbow “L” tattooed on my forehead.  I want people to know.  I love that I am queer.  It’s as much a part of me as being a woman, or being American.  I don’t “rub people’s noses in it” (an expression I find distasteful, but one that many straight people I’ve known over the years say when they are okay with my being gay up to a degree, but please don’t tell them more than they want to know or are comfortable with.)

    So a few weeks ago, one of the Chow Chow Sisters (CCS) around here told me about an exercise class.  I miss going to the gym, but since I’m still looking for work, extras like gym membership are not an option right now.  I checked out a yoga class here in town, but you have to buy an $80 card up front so that’s out too.  So when the CCS told me that it was free, my ears perked up.  This life of caretaking involves a lot of shoving and lifting but not so much aerobic activity.   Have you ever walked with an elderly person?  Or pushed a wheelchair?  You just can’t go that fast.  So I thought a slow paced exercise class would be a great way to get back into it, and maybe get some good stretching like I was craving.  The CCS told me it was at the senior center but assured me anyone could go.  I didn’t want to seem like I was taking advantage of what few perks the seniors have these days, so I called the next business day to make sure it was cool.  The administrator said it was twice a week, you did not have to be a senior and they welcomed having newcomers.  Great.  I made a commitment to myself to start the next Thursday.

     

  • Examining the Christian Examiner

    The Christian Examiner is the largest Christian newspaper in the states. According to their general information blurb, which functions as a mission statement, the newspaper aims to:

    “. . .report newsworthy religious events and activities within the local Christian community, nationwide and around the world, to increase the awareness and activism of believers regarding the moral issues of today, to provide thought-provoking commentary, and to provide an effective advertising vehicle for Christian ministries and organizations, events, and businesses which want to reach the Christian marketplace.”

    I pick up the monthly edition of the Minnesota Christian Examiner made available to me through my university campus. I read the stories that are pertinent to the “Queer” community and often become discomforted. It’s not because I am angry with Christianity raging with atheist fervor; it’s because the voices of the silent majority are often too shy to express one of two perspectives. Either that I am an LGBT Christian, or even more compelling, I am an LGBT ally and Christian.

    It’s reasonable to suspect that the Christian Examiner editors are selective in choosing “true” Christian voices that perpetuate a message that is in line with the majority Christian moral stance on gay and lesbian issues. Nonetheless, there are limited LGBT news outlets giving voice to faithful gays and lesbians and their allies who also identify as Christian.

    The Christian identity is often disguised as a radical Tea Party perspective. This viewpoint is highlighted by individuals like, Bill O’Reilly, Glenn Beck, Michele Bachmann, Rick Santorum, Bryan Fischer, and the likes. But on numerous occasions there are family members and friends who cling simultaneously to faith and support of “Queer” individuals. They continually send the message that God still loves us, cherishes us, and is there for us. Yet, media outlets like Christian Examiner and Christian Post have successfully created a false perception that Christians are strictly anti-gay.

  • Name/Gender Change Forms & Workshop

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    The Fresno LGBT Community Center now has forms available to the public for the purposes of legally changing a person’s name and/or gender. Simply visit the Center during open hours and we can make copies of the forms for you.

    If you are unable to visit the Community Center please call us at 559-325-4429 at any time and leave us a message with the details of how we can mail the forms to you.

    There will also be a workshop on this topic at the Fresno LGBT Community Center on

    Saturday, January 28th from 1-2:30pm.

    Come gets all the ins and outs of how to legally change your name and / or gender. Step by step instructions… all the necessary forms… advice and testimonials! This FREE event is open to the public and is provided by Gay Central Valley in conjunction with Trans-E- Motion.

    FACEBOOK EVENT PAGE

    The Fresno LGBT Community Center is located at 1055 N Van Ness Avenue Suite A, Fresno, CA 93728. You can reach us by phone at 559-325-4429.

  • Fresno Stonewall Democrats Meeting

    Fresno Stonewall Democrats will meet on Wednesday, January 11, 2012 at Carrow's Restaurant, 4280 N. Blackstone at Ashlan in Fresno. Dinner and social 6:00 P.M. meeting 7:00 P.M.

    Our speaker will be Susan Good, candidate for Fresno City Council District 4. This is the seat currently held by Council member Larry Westerlund who is termed out.

    Additionally, we will be filling a vacancy for secretary. We will be discussing various issues of interest as well.

    Fresno Stonewall Democrats represents the interests of the lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender community in Fresno and the surrounding area through the Democratic Party.

    For more information visit www.fresnostonewalldemocrats.org, email ckrugman@sbcglobal.net or call 266-9237.

  • FREE Rapid HIV Testing THIS WEEK

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    The Fresno County Department of Public Health is offering FREE Rapid HIV Testing Tuesday - Thursday, January 3rd-5th, 2012 at their local offices between the hours of 8:30AM-11AM and from 1PM-3PM.

    UPDATE: There will also be FREE Rapid HIV Testing available on the following dates in January...

    Jan 10th, 11th, 12th, 17th, 18th, 19th, 25th, 26th and 31st

    The Health Department is located at

    1221 Fulton Mall

    First Floor

    Fresno, CA

    For more info call 559-600-3434

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